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People are more likely to ask you out for a drink, to hang out after a Meetup activity, or to watch Netflix and chill.
Sure you get perks here and there, but it boils down to the guy himself. As to whom to date from such vast selection, compatibility and authenticity.
While some of these responses pertain directly to living in Silicon Valley, most of the takeaways can be applied to being attractive and single anywhere. Because more often than not, guys are too afraid to approach and talk normally to an attractive woman for fear that they’ll get rejected.
I get this a lot when I’m working out at the gym, waiting in line to buy groceries, or standing around at the mall.
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That or they just don’t have the capability to hold a great conversation to keep you interested. It is true that often I am the only girl at a company amongst 50 guys and you are right that is kind of a unique situation. However, it always seems to be a point of interest at first.
I’m not sure about “very attractive” but as a woman in silicon valley, during a company team dinner, we went around the table and were asked to thank the person next to us for what they contributed to the company. The truth is I actively try to be just another team member. There are lots of little unexpected issues that make you different: The fact that an American Apparel men’s medium t-shirt is not the same as a women’s small (which is somehow confusing).
So I am less concerned with the whole choosing men issue and more concerned with being perceived as just another skilled professional. Most people are in tech and you may have to work with them again even if you end up on a date and things go very badly.
So I think the key is to do everything out of sincerity and not focus on who got the last exit. I think you just figure out who you click with and see if you can stand one another after that.
I think it’s become really common to date out of boredom and it’s such a waste of time for you and for the other person.